You should also wear a certain type of jewelry and accessories. Research shows men are far more attracted to clothes that… Well, it’s on. Wearing a certain types of shirts and pants. The Result? Changing My Body Language Attracted Better Looking Gay Guys! * The way I used my body to catch their eye. * The way I looked at guys I was interested in. * The direction that I approached guys I wanted to meet. * How I pointed with my feet (yes, feet, long story). The result? In less than an hour, two good-looking guys struck up a conversation with me Here’s a partial list of what he changed: He wanted a guinea pig–ME–to prove that the sexual body language principles that work for straight couples could, with some adaptation, work for gay men. The body language expert (a psychologist, actually) took me under his wing and coached me in the art of using body language to attract the kind of guys I liked.
Stay with me because this is where it gets interesting. You know what my reaction was? “Bullsh_t.” I mean, come on! Body language? I’m not meeting good looking guys because of my body language? Puh-leeze. He told me something that would change my life: Half the Guys You Like Are Turned Off By Your Body Language Well one day, I met a gay body language expert. You changed your look, your clothes, your style. Different bars, different people, different events. Seriously, have you ever come home from the bars more depressed than when you left? If you’re like me, you’ve tried everything. How many times can you come home without meeting anybody before you feel like there’s something wrong with you? Your Body Language Is All WrongĬan I tell you a story? Going out to bars and parties destroyed my self-esteem.